The Right Questions To Ask On First Dates With Women
Are you trying to find some first date questions to ask? Do you want to learn how to create great conversation and chat topics on first dates?
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The Right Questions To Ask On First Dates With Women
Are you trying to find some first date questions to ask? Do you want to learn how to create great conversation and chat topics on first dates?
Lucky for you I'm going to reveal techniques that will direct your dates with ladies to passionate kissing, one night stands, regular sex and awesome relationships better than any other techniques you have read or learned previously.
I can only assume that you want women to stop using the "Let's just be friends" catch phrase and instead, have women look at you as a stud or a boyfriend, then you must use this technique.
Without these techniques, the women around you will most likely only see you as a predictable, shy and dull 'nice guy' or a weirdo that they have no apparent sexual interest in.
And just so you know: Being refered to as a ‘friend’ by women is something that I can certainly relate to and also something that you want to avoid.
Initially, dating for me was a real drag. I was hopeless at it.
I felt nervous, useless and scared at the thought of having a date with a woman, let alone a gorgeous woman.
You see, I just didn't know what to say or do to keep a conversation exciting, or to keep it going. This meant that ladies would very often lose interest and desire for me very quickly.
Also, on many occasions the first date would include a whole lot of awkward silences that I just didn't know how to avoid or fix.
I practically never got a second date because women would always try and make up excuses about not seeing me again. If I did get a second date or a second chance, the lady would usually only be coming because she had no other options in men or because she felt sorry for me.
I certainly could feel this and I disliked it.
As you can tell, this was a very frustrating aspect of my life – I wasted a lot of time and money, trying to date women who were ‘out of my league’.
I knew I had to change something, but I just didn't know exactly what or how.
Initially, I thought I needed some pick up lines or routines to ask. I even got to the stage where I would bring a list of questions (2 pages long) and read them before I met the girl on the date.
Here is a sample:
#1 First Date Question
“I really enjoy travelling. Nothing more is as exciting as packing your bags and taking the plane to another part of the world.
What about you? Where did you go last?”
#2 First Date Question
“OK – what are some cool things that you do in your spare time?”
#3 First Date Question
“I enjoy movies that keep on your toes. The film "The Game" with Hollywood actor Michael Douglas is one of my best movies of all time.
What do you like to watch apart from chick flicks?”
That is all for now.
I used to sit in the car for 30 minutes before the date and read the questions over and over, trying to memorise them, trying to relax and think how good the date would go.
However, it never did.
I seemed to always ask the questions at the wrong time, rush them, talk about myself for too long and discussing all the boring topics like uni, work, family and the weather.
I didn't realise that I did not need more first date questions. Instead, I had to ignite sexual attraction and interest so the woman would be drawn to me, and would feel attracted to my character traits.
Well…How can this be achieved?
You see… by flirting!
Flirting stands for: the indirect advertising of sexual interest.
It is how mature adults talk with each other in an attractive and sexual manner, without the need for being direct and saying: "I wish to sleep and have sex with you. Would you like to sleep with me?"
Flirting is vital when it comes to meeting and attracting the opposite sex. And if you don't flirt, no amount of first date questions will ever help you succeed in dating.
Today when I go out on get togethers and dates with beautiful women, they always lead to hugs, kissing, sex and possible relationships (which are on my terms).
Here is a great flirting example that you can use right away:
It is based on 'who should pay' for the dinner bill and the drinks, etc.
It is a very good question.
Many think they know the answer. Some people say split the bull 50/50, while others say wait for a minute, will she pay? –is she a gold-digger?
Here is what has worked for me:
When we visit a quiet lounge bar for a drink, I'll buy the first round of drinks.
Most polite women often offer to get the second round, but if they don't, I smile and playfully say: "Wow, you're so rude! My drink has been dry for 10 minutes...didn't your mother teach you any manners or what?"
If you have a grin on your face and you are being playful, then she will know that you are simply flirting. This statement always gets them laughing and they go up to the bar to buy the next round of drinks.
If we go out for dinner date and I really like the woman, I will pay for her meal.
When we get the bill, I say the following: "I normally don’t buy women’s love with pizza and a cappuccino, but in your case… I just might *smile*. I really hope you have enough credit cards to buy MY love next time… we are going to this great seafood restaurant… and it’s your shout.”
See, this is flirting.
Flirting is very important if you want to show sexual confidence and spark women’s interest. If you act like a typical boring friend, then she will see you as one.
From now on, start flirting with as many women as you can, however while at work, keep it professional.
Dating Advice for Men :: 1
"First Date" Tips: "My Ex..."
If you feel these words forming in your mouth, for God's sake shove some food or something in there. If there are two more inappropriate words to utter on a date they are 'My Ex'. There's no faster way to paint yourself as bitter and self-obsessed (or just plain obsessed) than to bring up an ex while you're supposed to be getting to know someone new.
Dating Advice for Men :: 2
"First Date" Tips: "I Hate My Job!"
A first date is not the place to unload all your pent-up stress and frustrations about your stagnant career, idiotic colleagues, incompetent boss and petty office politics. You might feel better getting things off your chest, and sure, your date might seem like a sympathetic listener, but secretly they'll be cursing the moment they agreed to meet such a whiner — and counting the seconds until they can get the hell out of there.
Dating Advice for Men :: 3
"First Date" Tips: "This Place Is a Dive"
Sure you might think the place is a run-down greasy spoon, but saying as much will just make you sound like an unappreciative snob. You never know, this dingy little dive could be the family business, so don't blow it by coming across all elitist. There's nothing more offensive — especially if your date has paid the bill. If you are interested in seeing him or her again, just make a note to be the one who organises the date venue next time.
Dating Advice for Men :: 4
"First Date" Tips: "When Will I See You Again?"
Dropping this doozy into conversation basically guarantees you won't be hearing from your date again. Why? Because you've gone and ruined a perfectly good date by coming across all desperate and needy, that's why. If you had a good time, tell your date. If they did too, then you're all set for round two. A follow-up date is something that should happen naturally, not something you need to request.
Dating Advice for Men :: 5
"First Date" Tips: "Where Is This Going?"
This date is going straight to hell by the time these words are uttered. First (and second and even third) dates are all about getting to know someone so you can decide if there is a spark that's worth cultivating. A first meeting is not the time to be laying your cards on the table and stating what your relationship wants and needs are. When the chemistry is right and you're on to something special, you won't need to ask your date "Where is this going?" You will already be there...
Dating Advice for Men :: 6
"First Date" Tips: "I Love You!"
Don't laugh. It happens. And it happened to me. On a blind date of all things. Sure you had a great night. Sure your date is your idea of perfection. And yes, that gushy, warm feeling that's creeping over you is delicious. But it is NOT love. It is your hormones, darling. Don't tell me you love me on the first date no matter how damn fabulous I am...
Dating Advice for Men :: 7
"First Date" Tips: "It's Just a Rash..."
If you have an unsightly rash on any visible part of your body — an outbreak of some unfortunate skin disorder, for example — it may be worth rescheduling the date until you've, er, healed. No one wants to hear about your eczema or whatever, especially while they're eating. And there's not a hope in hell you're going to get a good night kiss if it looks like your lips are about to fall off.
Dating Advice for Men :: 8
"First Date" Tips: "My Therapist Says..."
'Over-sharing' is a term used to describe the act of revealing too-intimate details too soon. It's an early date no-no. For some reason, deeply personal and traumatic revelations from someone, who is essentially a complete stranger, send people running for the hills. Go figure. There's no shame in seeking qualified counselling to get you through life's ups and downs — just don't tell me about it over our very first cappuccino.
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